The Tinder app chirrups gaily in my pocket like
a little digital blackbird. I have matched with Seb, 27. Seb is a PhD student
at Durham University, visiting Glasgow for reasons unspecified. He is handsome,
but in one of his pictures he is wearing one of those T-Shirts that lists
famously associated names in hip vertical text (John & Paul & George
& Ringo, etc), except his says
Derrida
&
Baudrillard
&
Foucault
&
Žižek.
This immediately bursts the delicate bubble of
denial I prefer to keep suspended for as long as possible when it comes to the
fit ones: he is clearly, on some level - on every level, perhaps - a cock.
Dithering, I zoom in on a couple of the other photos. He has jagged, daintily
fragile white teeth and a chiselled jawline – chiselled enough that I could
probably forget the dire implications of the T-Shirt if a coital scenario were to present itself.
Reluctant to participate in the inevitable and
vastly unsexy fellow-students-of-literature-circle-jerk opening dance, my
fingers work deftly to take my degree details off my profile. Too late. Another
chirrup, slightly different in tonal quality this time - a chaffinch, perhaps -
heralds a message:
Cathy! I would have guessed you were a fellow
lit student. Us humanities folk can sniff one another out like wolves.
In my mind I circle the words I take exception
to (‘lit,’ ‘humanities,’ ‘folk,') in some sort of Star-Trekky digital red pen,
and send the message back to him. I consider and reject a string of hollow,
enabling replies, some if not all incorporating Wuthering-Heights references I
have used several times in the past, when I’ve found myself complicit in other
such dismal exchanges.
Eventually, I go back into profile settings and
delete my main display photo (me in a slightly insipid double-skirted floral
dress, long red hair falling in waves to my waist), and replace it with a more
recent image. In it my lips are drenched in gloss and parted in an overt
display of sex-doll sexuality, and I’m wearing a top I ordered on ASOS that is
really, technically, underwear. I put my phone back in my pocket and make
myself a hot chocolate. Ostentatious peacocking is a good acid test, I find. It
separates the talkers from the ones with hard-ons they actually want to do
something about. After about ten minutes my phone pings again.
Blimey.
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We meet at The Old Hairdressers – his suggestion
– there’s something on later that he wants to see. I decide not to Google the
event in case the prospect of whatever it is depresses me too much to turn up.
My agenda – the vampiric consumption of his jawline - must remain clear and
unsullied.
Seb greets me charmingly outside and puts a
light hand on my shoulder as we go up to the bar, where he pays for two beers.
He seems nice, actually. Bit earnest, but nice. He asks me about myself, and is
attractively vague and modest about his own circumstances. It’s still not
entirely clear why he is visiting Glasgow, but he seems happy to be here. He
likes the people, he says. They are less ‘repressed.’
The bar staff are lively, messing around with a
playlist of watered-down indie disco music from our teenage years – The Kooks,
Razorlight, The Wombats (!). I start to feel pleasantly drunk and nostalgic. I
wait for him to slag off the music, to make it very clear that he Never Liked
The Kooks, Remember Luke Pritchard, What a Cunt, It Was So Good When Simon
Amstell Slagged Him Off On Popworld, but he doesn’t go there, and I like that
he doesn’t. I imagine him when he was fourteen, in a sunny English suburban
bedroom, putting on ‘She Moves In Her Own Way’ for a pretty blonde girl with a
snub-nose and rosebud lips. I giggle to myself: it’s nice. I don’t resent him.
I like that he came from a different world, a world I’ve seen on Channel 4 teen
shows and Gurinder Chadha films, but never inhabited myself. I chide myself for
my earlier cynicism, my intolerance, and as the beers go down, I am really
looking forward to sleeping with him.
At 10pm, the bar area starts to clear a bit –
people our age and a bit younger are heading up the fairy-lit staircase to the
‘mezzanine’.
‘Do you want to go through?’ asks Seb, eyes
shining.
‘Yes! If you like. What’s on?’
‘It’s a spoken word event – some incredible
voices – I’ve seen quite a bit of their stuff online. There’s one girl who’s
just… absolutely brilliant.’
I look back at the crowd flowing up the stairs.
Bringing up the rear is Rose Keller, an obnoxious and unfriendly girl I
remember from my university tutorials. She is speaking loudly to a wan-looking
friend in brothel creepers and black lipstick. The word ‘gender’ drifts down to
me several times as ‘Golden Touch’ fades out over the bar speakers. I take a
deep breath.
Spoken fucking word.
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When we enter the room there are lots of people
sitting cross-legged on bedraggled, grubby cushions on the floor. The first
thing I notice is that none of them have bought any booze. I gulp nervously at
my beer, wishing I’d bought another two as back-up. There aren’t many cushions
left for Seb and I. Instinctively, I know I’d feel safer standing in the
doorway, but he has other plans.
‘Do you want to go in the middle there,’ he
says, ‘and I’ll, sort of, hover near the front?’
I notice that Rose Keller is also, sort of,
hovering near the front.
Seb doesn’t wait for a response, so I wind my
way awkwardly through the mass of angular limbs and politically correct tote
bags, eventually finding a spot between two middle-aged women, one of whom I
recognise. Joanna Silversmith. She was one of my tutors at Glasgow. My heart
gives a little leap of relief – a familiar face! O joy! Here I am, my budding
mind once honed by her and others of her kind. I tap her shoulder and smile.
‘Hello. Do you mind if I squeeze in?’
She looks me up and down nastily.
‘ Squeeze? You’re a rake darling, sure, but
morbidly obese I ain’t.’
Her companion, a blue-haired, slack-mouthed
creature, lets out a Hallowe’en cackle. I sink onto my cushion, feeling the
heat radiating from my cheeks. Two tiny pin-pricks tickle my eyes - the threat
of tears - but there is a flurry of activity from the front of the room, and
they don’t come.
Rose Keller sways up to the microphone, her
salmon-pink dress floating around her as though her bottom half has been
submerged in a tank of crystalline water. I glance over at Seb, who is staring
at her with the glaikit expression of one recently fellated by Christina
Hendricks; a Christina Hendricks who’d just read a Cosmo article about the
importance of perineum work.
‘Hi, everyone,’ says Rose too loudly, in her
best ‘take-my-picture-by-the-pool-cos-I’m-the-next-big-thing’ voice.
‘So, uh, yeah! When I first came to Glasgow I
thought – fuck – sure, it’ll be an experience, but in terms of the poetry
scene, I’m a Bristol girl, so, you know…’
She trails off coquettishly. A ripple of
knowing, indulgent laughter spreads across the room.
‘So, uh, yeah! I just thought, let’s bring a
voice to this city! We have some fantastic artists here tonight - so, without
further…whatever (we all hate a cliché in here!), let me introduce the gorgeous
Guy Banks.’
Guy Banks is from Reading. He has things to say
about the gentrification of Finnieston, where he moved two months ago. He
stands too close to the microphone, so I can hear the spit clicking about in
his mouth as he speaks.
Being not a poet myself, I'm conscious that I am
somewhat ill-equipped to criticise Guy-Banks-from-Reading. Instinctively,
though, I feel that poetry should flow - it should have a natural pace that
compliments its meaning, so that it permeates the listener, seeps in,
nourishes, lingers. But Guy has adopted that unfortunate trend of delivering
his lines with a monotonous, contrived rhythm that does nothing for me
whatsoever – the hairs on the back of my neck remain unruffled, my heart still,
my soul unmoved. It's a trend growing more popular by the second – there are teens
with posters of Kate Tempest on their ceilings, Nationwide are using
spoken-word performers to narrate their cutting-edge ad campaigns about the
grafters toiling to keep our economy afloat(!). On paper, of course, it’s all
‘good’. Liberal messages communicated in new, imaginative ways. I’m down for
that, in theory. In practice, though, usually I find it irritating, insincere
and downright boring.
I look
around me, at Guy’s wide-eyed audience, and wonder whether what he’s saying
actually means something to them – whether I’m the one in the minority here,
I’m the robot - or whether they know that to be part of this… ‘scene,’ motion,
whatever the fuck it is, they have simply had to learn to look as though it
resonates.
Next, Yvonne Harper from Leeds shouts very
loudly for twenty minutes about tampons.
It’s over for my beer. The happy, warm nostalgia
I felt down at the bar has long since drained from my bones, and I feel scared.
I’m scared that when I finally get home, the thought of these people will make me
sharpen my kitchen knife and plunge it into the soft part of my cuticles until
the blood seeps over my hands and up my arms.
Rose Keller is last to read. She swooshes up to
the stage, fully aware that she is commanding a room full of people to whom she
is the ultimate prize. This time, when she speaks, it’s in a softer, ethereal,
barely-there voice. She knows know what she’s doing. I find myself glancing
around at the mens’ crotches for signs of movement.
Rose’s poem is an aggrieved account of being
cat-called in the street (why the fuck do men think they have the right to
indulge in such behaviour, it’s 2018, we are not sirloins, etc, etc). Again, in
principle, of course I agree. But I cannot help but suspect that Rose has
fabricated this incident in her mind, not as a way of positively countering the
lascivious and intimidating behaviour of men, but in fact, as a way of telling
her audience one thing, and one thing alone: ‘I’m a beautiful young woman and
men want me.’
Rose knows she can’t just say that outright, so
instead, she has created a story vilifying a fictitious man and dressed it up
as being an ethical and socially cleansing piece of work. This girl is clearly
a straight-up narcissist, and she’s turned a roomful of her generation into an
Oxytocin factory.
She finishes. There is a short silence followed
by rapturous applause and stricken, ‘I’m-so-sorry-that-happened-to-you’
expressions.
Breathless and flushed, Rose speaks once more.
‘We have five more minutes, so let’s open up the
floor.’
Thing is, If I were to go up there, get up to
that microphone and say what I believe to be the crux of Rose’s agenda, I would
be shot down in flames. I know that the majority of people who have come here
wouldn’t understand what I was getting at – they would have me down as
anti-feminist, on the wrong side, ‘part of the problem.’ But… isn’t that a bit,
well, fucking thick of them? Yes, I am appalled by any man who takes advantage
of his physical or social superiority over any woman. Yes, it should be fought
against. And yet, I have also noticed a burgeoning trend of women themselves
taking advantage of their own perceived inferiority, and using it against men
in a multitude of manipulative and extremely dangerous ways. I think that’s
exactly what Rose just did. That’s what’s inspired the creative petites morts in so many of Glasgow’s
bright young things. And it scares the shit out of me.
Joanna Silversmith practically volts over the
huddled cushion-dwellers so she can bellow on about Virginia Woolf’s vagina
until the venue owners come in and, effectively, tell everyone to get the fuck
out. I smile at them gratefully.
Seb finds me in the throng as we’re leaving.
‘Fantastic, wasn’t it?’
‘Yes, yes. Lovely,’ I murmur, fishing about in
my pocket for my cigarettes.
We push outside, where everyone is lighting up
and wanking each other off, figuratively and literally, probably. I offer him a
cigarette and he takes one absent-mindedly, his eyes darting and bright. A
flash of hatred seizes me. The strength of it takes me by surprise.
‘Why did you move here? To Glasgow I mean,’ I
ask him.
His eyes meet mine, but he’s stopped seeing me.
‘My parents are a bit Tory. I thought it would
piss them off.’
I dig my nails into my palms. I look up and down
the cobbled alley outside the pub – this dark place in the city I love. Someone
has overheard Seb’s last comment and guffaws towards us.
‘Me too, mate. And I did Lit, to top it off.
They’re like, Humanities degree? Sort of, what are you going to do with that?
Teach?’
Seb laughs. ‘I know. But, I mean, after seeing
something like that, you just think, like, God, us Humanities folk have such a
lot of heart.’
I could lose it, really go for it; 'WHY THE FUCK
DO YOU HAVE TO SAY 'HUMANITIES'? WHY CAN'T YOU JUST SAY YOU STUDIED FUCKING
ENGLISH, OR FUCKING SOCIOLOGY, OR WHATEVER THE FUCK? DON’T YOU REALISE HOW MUCH
OF A COMPLETE KNOB YOU ARE? DON’T YOU REALISE HOW ALIENATING AND MEANINGLESS
THAT SOUNDS? OR – OR – ARE YOU PUTTING US ALL IN THE SAME BRACKET DELIBERATELY,
BECAUSE YOU HAVE A MASSIVE CHIP ON YOUR SHOULDER? BECAUSE YOU KNOW OUR CHANCES
OF MAKING ANY FUCKING MONEY WHATSOEVER ARE CONSIDERABLY SLIMMER THAN THEY ARE
FOR PEOPLE WHO CHOSE, SAY, ACCOUNTANCY OR... I DON'T KNOW, FUCKING...
FUCKING... ORTHODONTICS? IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT TO FEEL? OH YES, US 'HUMANITIES
FOLK' ARE ALL IN IT TOGETHER. MAYBE WE WON'T GET A JOB OUT OF IT, BUT WE'RE
STILL MORE ENLIGHTENED THAN EVERYONE ELSE, AND MORE UNIQUE IN EVERY WAY. REBELLING
FROM OUR ‘A BIT TORY’ PARENTS. YEAH, WELL. APPLES. TREES. DON’T FALL FAR FROM.
I HATE TO TELL YOU, MATE, BUT THAT SHIT IS IN YOUR BLOOD WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR
NOT. AND THERE-IN-LIES-THE-RUB.’
Needless to say, I don't go there. I see him
clock Rose in her swishing gown, take my cue, and slip off into the night.
When I get home, instead of slitting my wrists
(it’s a close call), I put on ‘Local Hero.’ I didn’t know this, but Mark
Knopfler did the soundtrack. There’s one called ‘The Ceilidh and the Northern
Lights,’ which is played over a montage of a ceilidh… and the Northern Lights.
A young Denis Lawson swings his wife around a windswept Aberdeenshire hall.
People drink whisky, sing into microphones, snog. Laugh. Outside the village
hall, apart from the churning sea, there is peace. I fall asleep trying my best
to think about that beach, that sublime Northern sky. I fall asleep trying not
to lose hope.